What a Woman (Subconsciously) Wants
Years ago, I read a study explaining that men and women perceive desire differently. At the time, it was just another academic paper I...
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Two-Faced, New-Faced
When I first learned about sex, I was at my older cousin’s home. She gave me her ten-year-old version of where babies come from. I was...
A Tear (Rhymes with “Down There”)
You know you’ve joined an elite group of sexual afficionados (or dunces) when you cause yourself a labial tear from too much adventure....
Sexual Vocabulary
As part of Sexology Institute’s series on consensual non-monogamy, I’m delivering a presentation this Thursday on managing jealousy.
Is Casual Sex Really Casual?
If you've been single for a while, then the idea of having a sexual relationship without the bonds of romance may have crossed your mind....
Is There Anything Better Than "Masturbation"?
In almost every American culture “masturbation” is has a negative connotation (think “gingivitis”), and when adults attempt to teach youth,
Squirting Study
Not long ago, the Journal of Sexual Medicine published a scholarly article by a group of French scientists investigating the anatomic...
Bringing Toys into the Relationship
A partner may want to introduce a sex toy into the relationship for a number of reasons, and some reasons are better received than...
The Black Licorice of Sex
Just because anal sex is on the rise doesn’t mean you have to jump on the bandwagon. Like any form of sexual activity, you should communicat
Is Squirting Passé?
Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past decade, you’ve probably learned that female ejaculation (aka “squirting”) is actually a
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